- Q: Im dating a 49 yr. Old jamaican man who says I must be like his mom, and she must approve of me as well. .They live here in the usa and have for over 30yrs now. Burr hold many home values. Please tell me. ..
- What is like her?
- A: I am not quite sure I understand the question…but in any case, he just want a woman who is like his mother. That is not a Jamaican rule… You have to decide if you want to go along with that. I don’t know how long you guys have been dating and what your future objectives are. However, you have to be able to answer the questions: Am I like his mother? If not, you probably should run…because he is requiring you to be someone you are not…and that’s definitely going to be a problem in the future.
- If he really loves you he will accept you as you are, he will not try to change you…don’t try to be someone you are not, you will regret it.
Good luck on your decision.