Dating Jamaican Women

by Igan Hamlicar Potts
(New Rochelle)Q: I have a problem with dating Jamaican women. It usually start off just right, we get along well with each other, we talk things out and we go out all the time…plus I help her out all the time. I take reasonability in our relationship this has gone on for three years. It is a good relationship and she know that I am a man who is not afraid of commitment and being in relationship with her.

The problem starts when she is around her friend whom she grew up with…telling her that all “African American men are no good for Jamaican women all they want is to have sex with Jamaican women and only Jamaican men know too take care of island women.“

…then her family start saying the same thing as her friend, she began to believe it, and every thing started going downhill from there.

What can I do to stop this type of problem from happening to me?

A: Well, You are going to have to prove to her that her friend and family is wrong…and if you are doing anything at all to make her be doubtful of their relationship, then you need to stop.

…but you have to do your part to prove to her that they are wrong…that you are not like the average “African American” man.

Check yourself to see if you are doing anything at all to let her doubt it…and if you are, you need to stop.

It could be any little thing at all like…
if she is calling you on the phone and can’t get you…she will doubt you. if you are coming late, without proper explanation…she will doubt.

Maybe it is something that you did that cause her to talk to her friend and family, check yourself.

…because if she is just judging based upon you being an “African American” alone, that is stupid.

Jamaican women are very sensitive to the little things and they know if you are for real.

I hope things work out for you.

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May 02, 2013 Jamaican Women
by: Anonymous Why is it that a lot of Jamaican women seem arragont, rude and jealous of American women? I am careful to not say ALL but I’ve come in contact with quite a few who seem to have such an attitude and problem (it seems like) American women. Especially, in South Florida (WOW) they are a mess. I also recently visited Jamaican for the sencond time and had to opportunity to get out to mingle with the local people and I got the same feeling. One lady almost knock me down in passing on the street and did not bother to say excuse me. I was in the mall in Kingston and asked a question to someone working in the store and she talked without even looking at me, others just gave us mean glares. Now the majority of the women working at the hotel were extremely nice and also at the flea markets (well until you refused to purchase something) then their true colors showed. I just plain old confused????

Oct 24, 2011 Great advice….
by: susan Great advice, Jamaican Traditions!!!


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